I amso upset and don’t know what to do, PLZ help, No BS?
September 5th, 2009 | by Anthony |JAY DUB asked:
Well to start out, a while ago my girl freind broke up with me as incentive to get stress management help, so i did and her and i got back together notto long after, it seems she doesn’t give a sh*t about me & my feelings, she doesn’t act the way she used to at the begging and middle, herandi have been together for a year, myparents admit they **** her because she’s hurt me and other various reasons , so we are forbidden to go to each others house or have “Us” time where we can just hangout together, so we practically never get our time, She acts different at school than when it’s us, I **** “School Marissa”. I have been the best Boy freind i could, i have done everyhing and anything for her, things most guys wouldn’t, and she thinks things that she used to like that i do are gross, orsomething else, such as sharing a drink, or even kissing, it’s tearing me apart, and we have so much planned and love her but can’t give up knowing someother guy will have her and kids ect.
Plz Help
CATINA
10 Responses to “I amso upset and don’t know what to do, PLZ help, No BS?”
By marebear31485 on Sep 6, 2009 | Reply
I don’t mean to burst your bubble, but that is how I started acting towards my ex when I was ready to call it quits. I didn’t do it on purpose, but things I used to think were cute just started not being cute anymore. I think maybe it is time to move on…sorry.
By nice guy on Sep 8, 2009 | Reply
Please move on and away before you go crazy. She is not worth it. You will find a girl of you dreams and this one seems to be your nightmare.
By Kasie M on Sep 8, 2009 | Reply
Sounds like she was already trying to push away before the stress management. Perhaps she likes guys who treat her poorly. I’m a woman, used to be the same way before I grew up. Try ignoring her for a few days. It’ll tear you apart but DO NOT CALL OR SEEK HER OUT. If she talks to you, play indifferent. Blow her off. I’m serious. If you want to stay with her, try it. Either she wants to be treated badly or she won’t respond to you because she’s happy you’re out of the picture. Either way, sounds to me like you could do better.
By just2more on Sep 8, 2009 | Reply
I **** to be the one to say this, but I think she checked out of this relationship! A lot of people, especially girls, will start disliking every little thing you do, even things we used to love. You don’t seem happy, so I say talk to her about how you feel. Be very honest and upfront. If she doesn’t act like she cares, it’s time to move on to someone who does.
By NET M on Sep 10, 2009 | Reply
just forget her see if she is hurting you and ur mind says so..
else your life will be miserable just today forget her for good>>> and live your life there are so many things in world to concentrate and help the more needy which will give more happineess to yr mind and you will love to do so…
By Freakout on Sep 11, 2009 | Reply
No use crying over spill milk and no use forcing the issue and getting all upset. Move on look for a another nice girl and get your life back in order and study hard. You have started to learn the reality of life and woman ditching guys which was before it was only guys doing this stuff.
Move on and when you get the opportunity get a swipe of her but wait for the chance as now you are not able to think with rationale.
By Michael M on Sep 14, 2009 | Reply
She is not good enough for you.
By Reality Bites on Sep 16, 2009 | Reply
“it seems she doesn’t give a sh*t about me & my feelings”
That and other things you have said are just how most American women are. Get used to it, and learn they only need to be respected after they’ve earned it. It used to be different, but things changed and women usually see all men as not worthy of them. So go on and give them what they expect and deserve… treat them like crap, that’s the type of men they usually cheat with when they have a boyfriend that treats them with respect.
By Bud E on Sep 18, 2009 | Reply
I am 45 years old and I have no way of telling you what to do.
I will tell you that you already know the answer to your own question, but you just can’t seem to come to grips with it yet.
Time is on your side, unless you are 92 or something, and Rome was not built in a day. You could also think about the world having 6 or so billion people, and OVER HALF ARE WOMEN!
I remember being young, It seems as if everything has to work out today. You are going to have to get tough to it, get on with it, and, get over it. You will be fine, always!
If you keep your kool.
By completly lost on Sep 18, 2009 | Reply
high school relationships rarely last. thing is you are both growing at different rates.. physically and emotionally. and highschool girls can be very inconsistant. They dont much think for themselves. They are ruled by their peers. Guys may be the same but I am a woman so I dont know what its like for guys in highschool. I only know how silly highschool girls are.
This is one reason that I encourage teens to hold off on dating and deluding yourself into thinking you are in love. It only gets in the way of you getting to know who you are becoming yourself.
try to think seriously about what you want out of life. and if she acts like this now… how will she act when she is an adult? answer is.. there is no way to tell. who she is now is not the same person she will eventually be. trust me.. she wont have a clue what she wants out of life or men until she is about 25.
and its true about alot of women if not most.
take your time, relax and dont try to get urself married before you have even finished school. enjoy being a kid. cuz marriage is really hard.
good luck.